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Ministry team: Robert Morgan (Lower Farm, 748848) priest-in-charge; licensed lay ministers: Brian Andrews (777011); Liz Shatford (772598) - pastoral assistant and parish chiropodist. Church Wardens: Mrs Marjorie Harris (24 Henley Road) and Ray Lee (93 Henley Road). Organist: Daniel Chambers. |
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Sunday services:
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Some of our food production is shocking and the response to FMD has shown how profits take priority over morality here too. Individuals are making their protests in their lifestyle, and intelligent books and articles get written. Will that be enough to turn things around in the new century? Or is it already too late?
The best recent book in the social sciences (say some) is called Ritual and Religion in the Making of Humanity, a theory of human origins arguing the need for rituals to sustain human life on our planet. These rituals support views of the world and moralities. Through them we learn to treat each other and the planet with respect. Many of the inherited rhythms we grew up with are hard to sustain in a rapidly changing world without the old regularities. Sunday means work for many. Harvest celebrations were different when most of the village community (eight farms in Sandford) helped safely gather it all in 'ere the winter storms begin.
So this year in Sandford we won't have the
traditional 'Come, ye thankful people, come, raise the song of harvest
home' evensong followed by harvest supper, cider, country-dancing etc.
Or plough the fields and scatter insecticide on land. Instead we'll have
the usual all-age service on the last Sunday of the month at 11.15 when
children can play their music and be taught the basics and sing the old
and new songs followed by Harvest Lunch (bring and share) in the
Rituals of thanksgiving, teaching us to treat the created world
with respect can't be limited to once a year. Or even once a week. Grace
before and/or after meals is a basic civility we need to recover. Schools
have a role in teaching these simple rituals, but it's the grown-ups who
most need to learn or relearn what are easily forgotten because not
regularly practised, privately and together. And the result of that? A
coarsening of social life evident in the shocking carelessness about our
language, and the world's resources. Happily most people are better
than the new rudeness, waste, dirt and violence, so maybe enough
people will see the need to do things differently and make a difference.
Come, learn, do.
The Marriage Seminar: discussion and sharing experience of
marriage in the modern world continue intermittently as part of pre-
marriage preparation and post-marriage continuation. Anyone welcome
- contact ministry team
about waiting list.
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Ritual celebrations of
welcome into the world Services of Blessing and Thanksgiving have become more popular, especially in place of infant baptism where parents and god- parents cannot in conscience make the promises it involves. Next Blessing will be at the 11.15 service on October 28th. |
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Community refuse vehicles: Tuesday 2nd October 8.0 -
10.45 and Saturday 20th October in Village Hall car park. November dates not yet fixed - ring SODC on 01491-823203. |
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The parish council has had a busy summer so far and I was particularly pleased to see so many parishioners at our last meeting (more of this later). We continue Our work on the village facilities; new play equipment on the green next to the village hall, goal posts on Fox Furlong, continued improvement to the hall entrance area and assisting the hall committee and users. Can I plug the toddler group meetings from 10-12 on Monday morning in the hall. I took our son Oliver (2½) one week and felt very welcome we even christened the new baby changing table provided! Do you support village activities?
I am pleased to see the road signs for Brick Kiln lane provided by SODC. This offers a permanent record and reminder of part of our heritage. In the early 1900's Sandford had it's own brick works where the Park homes site is now.
I would like to thank the Four Pillars Hotel who have produced a
fireworks code that requires displays to focus on visual delight rather
than sound and to be set off before 10pm. However, I am aware that the
'steamers' that are operated by Salters in the evenings are a frequent and
greater source of disturbance than occasional firework displays. The
sound of disco music reverberating along the river on summer nights is
contrary to Environment Agency bylaws and clearly a nuisance. The
Agency have been approached to try and curb this, with limited success.
I am keen to hear from parishioners who are particularly annoyed by this
activity to gauge the level of action the council should take.
The oral history project is underway
and to date 5 people's memories of
Sandford have been recorded and will be
transcribed and published in due course.
If you know any mature 'Sandfordians'
(70 plus) who might wish to be
interviewed - tell me!
At the end of the year, the sign for
the pub by the river is to come down and
there have been suggestions that we might
replace it with a village sign any thoughts
on this?
Finally keep up the slow drive policy - we can all help slow down the traffic around our homes by setting an example and driving at 30 mph or preferably less in the residential areas.
Nigel Northcott, Chair, Parish Council (773569)
nigeln@globalnet.co.uk
The meeting was attended by 11 members of the parish together with the council and Roy Tudor Hughes (County Councillor), John Stimpson (District Council) and Richard Dix (Assistant Director of Highways Management Oxfordshire County Council). The impact of traffic from the new football stadium was debated and the following points were agreed to be taken forward by Richard and our elected representatives:
As reported in the Summer Link, a number of former members of the Sandford WI decided to continue their association as an independent Ladies Social Group, which is open to others who may wish to join them. Our first meeting was a Coffee Evening at Doreen's house in Broadhurst Gardens, at which we confirmed our intention to set up the Group, and, along with a friendly chat, discussed ideas for future meetings.
So it was that nine of us gathered at the Four Pillars Bistro at lunch-time on Saturday 21st July for a meal which was enjoyed by all. There was lots of talk and laughter, as there was from other parties enjoying themselves and from guests at a wedding reception which was also taking place. We decided that we would break for a while during the holiday period, so there is no meeting arranged for the immediate future, but plans are afoot! As well as meeting in our own houses the vicar has also offered the use of the Welch Room, next to the church.
Look out for posters on the noticeboards for future meetings.
We are a really friendly crowd, so please come along and join us.
Joan Inston (715788)
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to Richard and Jenny Morris, whose Ruby Wedding was celebrated
by Thanksgiving and Blessing and Renewal of Vows at the 10.0
service on 26th August. 'How great thou art' was sung;
to Liz and Alan Northcott, formerly of River View and the Sandford
choir, came back to do the same on their silver wedding, on 9th
September. It has been a pleasure to welcome people back in this public
way. Other couples choose to do the same thing in a private service,
alone or with their family;
to Sue Ballard and Michael Franklin of Main Avenue and to
Graham Woodroofe and Nicola née Rutter on their marriages at
St Andrews' during the summer, and to Andrew Dibb of Church Road
and Alison Hale who will be married on 13th October;
and to Gina for raising £180 by sponsorship for many miles run relay
for Cancer Research (the weekend raises £40k).
The annual Fete took place on 7th July (usually second Saturday in July) - with rain holding off in Sandford, but postponing a rival attraction at Wimbledon (Tim Henman's semi-final). A celebrity appearance by Chris Hackett raised the excitement of the goal-kicking competition and showing his range of skills Chris also guessed correctly the number of sweets in the Jar - but since they are no part of his diet he passed them on to the runner-up, Alice Daglish. As usual Gina showed us how the Aunt Sally should be done. Coconuts galore were won as usual, ducks fished, Maurice's barbeque much appreciated and Dr Peter Agulnik's pig smashed to reveal a sum of money correctly guessed by our editor.
In the tug of war the Catherine Wheel champions retained the Sandford Challenge Cup, beating the Fox Warriors and the Church Road Scratch narrowly - and being beaten only by the kids (who outnumbered them 10 to 1). The girls beat the boys in the younger division, causing more problems about male identity. Lin's cake was correctly weight guessed and Andy's auctioned (along with Christmas pudding Aim way ahead of the rest of us in Xmas preparation). In the children's sports there were one or two adult casualties, but an elderly couple won the three-legged race. Some brilliance in egg and spoon was shown by Helen Wilkinson. The Marian Flanagan Irish Dancers were beautiful, climaxing in a piéce de résistance by their youngest (two year old) dancer. (Pam's side-show also showed how it can still be done).
Funds were raised above all by the raffle, thanks in part to Barclay's sponsorship and Bev's organising of it, but also by the great majority of the village buying a £2 strip along with their Link (which it helps pay for). Nearly thirty prizes were delivered or collected afterwards - thanks to all who donated, including the Four Pillars' three great prizes and Dennis Harris's absolutely superb garden seat, hand made. Details of winning numbers are on the noticeboard. Very many thanks to all who donated prizes, cakes, time and effort.
The larger than usual turn-out meant a good turn-out for the
Flower Festival too, which attracts visitors from far afield. The theme of
life was beautifully symbolized in a spread of beauty which lasted long
through to cover Paul and Sue's wedding (they who won the bowling).
Once again, congratulations Marjorie.
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Littlemore Flower Festival As we go to press it's about to happen, so we hope our friends and neighbours at St Nicholas have had a great time with flowers and music (two concerts) 79th September, celebrating Newman (again) in this bi-centenary year. |
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Flooding over Tinshed The floods of last Spring opened up many old springs all over the County, including (it was thought) on the Sandford footpath over Tinshed Hill. Someone helpfully build the beginnings of a bridge or stepping stones with bricks, but anyone crossing in the dark or after one too many risks a very wet and muddy foot. Be warned. Latest news is that a cows' tap was left running. |
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Professor Bryan Matthews 7.4.20 - 12.7.01
Bryan and Margaret Matthews came to Sandford in 1970 when he was appointed Professor of Neurology and Fellow of St Edmund's Hall, and remained here on retirement in 1987. Previously Dr Matthews had trained at Oxford (University College) and London and been a consultant in Derby before becoming professor in Manchester, and he remained patient-oriented throughout his distinguished scientific and teaching career. His book on MS is still widely read by patients as well as physicians, and his research of CJD is a landmark in medicine.
Son of an outstanding theologian, Walter Matthews, Dean of St Paul's, and a literary mother, he was an excellent cricketer, rugby-player and sprinter, and continued to enjoy long walks in the hills and to cultivate his garden. It was hard for the family when his brilliant brother was killed at Dunkirk, and Bryan gained his initial medical experience in Palestine during the war, with few facilities.
Latterly Margaret's illness cast shadows, but he carried on with stoic fortitude through years of his own poor health, faithfully visiting her following hospitalisation in 1997, and remaining witty, humorous, and tender-hearted. Those who knew him locally and nationally know what a remarkable man we have had among us, and join in offering our sympathies to Celia and Paul, and to Edward among the grandchildren a frequent visitor. It was lovely he lived to see his great granddaughter Leah.
At the funeral in St Andrew's a large gathering of former students
and colleagues joined local friends and family to pay respects and take
our leave. May he rest in peace.
Sidney King 30.3.52 - 13.7.01
Sid moved to Henley Road from Rose Hill with his young family in
1985, but he was originally from Watlington and remained a countryman
at heart. He had latterly worked at Parcelforce, but had been on sick
leave since last year. Many local people have shared a little in the
family's sadness during his illness and now offer warmest sympathies to
June and to Robert, Caroline, Susan and Michelle (born and baptised
Betty was born to a Sandford family, the Sharps, who at first lived in Mill Cottages (Riverview) and then later moved to 57 Henley Rd. Betty was apprenticed as a hairdresser and worked in the hairdressers in King Edward Street until she married Pip Barrett when she was in her twenties.
As was normal in those post war years they had to live in the parental
home because of the difficulties in finding accommodation locally.
However, Betty and Pip were at last able to find a house in Gaisford
Road, Cowley and moved there in 1957 where they stayed and brought
up their family, Katherine and Philip and then later grandchildren,
Rebecca, Sam and Robert. Sadly, Pip died of a heart attack 22 years ago.
Betty died on 28th July this year and was buried in the churchyard in the
family grave.
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Dennis Beesby aged 70
Mr Beesby moved into a new house on Kiln Close a few months ago and was already quite well known locally. His sudden death last month, two years after his daughter's, was a great shock to his friends and neighbours. Our sincere condolences to Mrs Beesby at this hard time. |
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Kevin and Barbara came to Sandford twelve years ago from their farm in
Zimbabwe, thinking that the future for white farmers did not look good,
even though he had an excellent relationship with his local staff. He
had gone out to Rhodesia after the war, after a distinguished war record,
as had many from this country. History suggests coming back was wise,
but it was hard. His practical skills were put to good Use locally e.g.
helping with the Village Hall.
Kevin was a warm-hearted man bearing
his illness with fortitude, welcoming visitors with a glass of beer, and on
parade complete with medals each Remembrance Sunday. We shall
remember him, and offer our sympathies to Barbara, to their daughter
Margaret, who had come over from Washington to see him just before
his sudden death, and to Malcolm and their families.
Henley Road, Sandford on Thames, Oxford OX4 4GX Telephone: (01865) 334444 . Fax: (01865) 334400 WEB http://www.four-pillars.co.uk Email: enquiries@four-pillars.co.uk Set in 30 acres of glorious parkland on the banks of the Thames. Open to non residents for drinks, light meals and riverside dining. Carvery lunch on Sundays. Conferences, Weddings (including Ceremony) and private parties. Telephone 01865 334444. |
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The twelfth village run down the towpath to Radley (and back) took place in perfect conditions (for spectators) as usual at 5.0 p.m. on the last Saturday of June. Sponsorship was sadly down this year, but 16 ran the five miles and 30 the three. The judges' task was complicated by two heroes completing the race without starting it, thus depressing the positions on most youngsters' certificates, and by two older professionals whose stopwatches hiccoughed, leading them to believe they were 1.3 seconds faster than adjudged, and by several pairs of twins hard to tell apart.
But a good time was had by (nearly) all, and there were no collapses, despite the array of doctors and paramedics on duty. Some notable veterans of this event, including Sam Hutton Paul Daglish, Keith Baker, John Wilmot, Sarah Grylls, Nigel Northcott, and Les and Georgie Gibbons, were prevented from running by injury, work and/or other problems, giving certain other geriosprints a clear run.
The Sandford Shield was again won by Mark Baker (30.02) slower than last years' 28 in perfect conditions (for runners, so everyone's time was down) and runner-up Lee Pugh (32.35) - he who took a wrong turn last year and ended up in Woodstock. Third Andy Pike (33.13)- fatherhood has not slowed him down (nor Kevin Gleeson at 34.33, nor Stephan Chambers at 35.26 - twins supporting).
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medals were struck for the boy's running 5 miles faster than most men
notably James Fenn (34.04 - aged 13 - brilliant), Stephen Baker (37.25)
and Tom Baker (41.16 - aged 10 (phenomenal). John Creed (36.01)
was found a fortnight too young for his bus pass (qualification for elders'
race) so that was again won by Alan Butler (47.33) his main rival, the
oldest competitor, having wisely dropped down to 3 miles. Vince
In the 3-mile race the fastest-moving woman in Sandford was Dr Louise Quested (31.23) - with Sue Norton injured and Kelly Caffel operating on a higher plane she had less competition than usual, but was beaten by the fastest-moving girl, Philippa Quested, aged 8, with 30.39 a great performance. But the over 10s was won by Matthew Daglish (21.38), and runner-up Richard Earp (22.26). In the Under 10s, gold went to Simon Wilkinson (28.00) and silver to his twin Toby (28.12). The youngest competitor medal again went to Sian Riley (6).
Other impressive times noted included Mark Wilmot (23.04), father Jason Caffel (23.10), Reece Day (24.34 we think), Simon Cockman (dropping in from Melbourne, 25.04), Joe Davis (27.03), Jake Tasker (27.11), Tom Daglish (27.42), Ben Wilkinson (27.44), Matthew Wilkinson (28.13), Vicar (29.35), Ewan Allen (29.43), Craig Baxter (31.08 - we think, but maybe faster), Sean Baxter 31.40 (ditto), Jodie Felix (31.18), Christian Riley (31.57), Ryan Battle (32.13), father Jim Davis (33.40), Adam Felix (34.10). Also Rosie Kirkbride, Sue Riley, Michael Cockman (or did he do 5?) and may be we should count Mark and Michelle. To name a few.
The Sandford bowl for signal services to the community this year went to Nigel and Claire Rolston, and the Vicar's collection-plate for fund- raising went to Maurice and Richard Earp for the Quiz Night and £30 to Youth Club. The not-long-empty tankard for the top coach went to London-Paris-New York marathon near winner Dr Matthew Wilkinson, for his achievements with the under 10s - runner-up was Keith Baker - each of their teams won two medals and one commendation. The long- service award went to Vince Boyle for several years' work on this event.
The competitors thank the judges (Drs Digby Quested and Jill
Bradley) and several members of St Andrews' congregation who
patrolled the route, supplying encouragement, water and safety-nets.
Derek's deputy on the lock kept our route open thanks. The Link still
has some uncollected certificates from the 2000 run.
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Seed gathering Sunday The Tree Council has designated 14th October as Seed Gathering Sunday, aimed at encouraging the collection of seed to grow the trees of the future. Groups wishing to organise seed gathering events can get more information from www.treecouncil.org.uk or from Ann Edwards on 020-7828-9928. |
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| Page 1 | Harvest Festival. |
| Page 2 | Church news. All Souls & Advent. |
| Page 3 | Songs of Praise. The Greening of Christianity. |
| Page 4 | ...The Greening of Christianity. The Marriage Seminar. Blessings. |
| Page 5 | Sandford Youth Club. |
| Page 6 | Community refuse vehicles. Sandford Toddler Group. |
| Page 7 | Parish Council Chair's report. |
| Page 8 | ...Parish Council Chair's report. |
| Page 9 | Football Traffic comments. |
| Page 10 | Sandford Ladies Social Group. |
| Page 11 | Welcome. Congratulations. |
| Page 12 | Village Fete and Flower Festival. |
| Page 13 | Orchard House. Littlemore Flower Festival. Flooding over Tinshed. Mobile Library. Oxford United. Bingo. |
| Page 14 | R.I.P. - Professor Bryan Matthews R.I.P. - Sidney King. |
| Page 15 | R.I.P. - Betty Barrett. R.I.P. - Dennis Beesby. Village Hall Bookings. |
| Page 16 | R.I.P. - Kevin Donnelly. |
| Page 17 | Volunteer Reading Help. Inter-faith discussion group. The River Run. |
| Page 18 | ...The River Run. |
| Page 19 | The Porch. |
| Page 20 | Seed gathering Sunday. Advertising Rates. |
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